Nothing's Over

Haha i know this MV's been around for quite some time already, but i can't help thinking it's CUTEEE. Not that i mean ONLY the guys are cute, but the whole concept of the MV. Bloody hell, which guy actually cheers up his dumped mate like this in real life? They'd go "Why are you moping like a lil bitch, buddy? C'mon, let's play basketball."

Nowadays i see lotsa girls moping over stuff like : weight, appearance, guys etc.

Annnndddd i wanna say some stuff about these!

First of all, weight problems. I'm cool with girls who exercise and diet for the sake of health. But isn't it a lil overboard to be motivated by wanting to be super skinny for appearance?
I mean, gosh, know your limits! Some girls shrink so much that it kinda scares people.

Anyway i'm not one to talk. I do understand the notion of wanting to slim down and fit into that dream dress/pair of skinnies.(that's why i wanted to aim 40 plus kg in my resolutions) but then again it's good to find out what's the optimum weight, like tall people can't expect to hit 40kg etc. Speaking of which, i think i'm a hopeless case. i've absolutely no motivation to slim down.

Yeah, people do hint now and then that i've grown bigger, and i just laugh and say Yeah, i know i got fatter. I mean, you'd never imagine i used to be a dancer with a slim figure when you see my stocky appearance now. But what matters most is that i'm not upset at being fatter than the other girls. And i have enough confidence to admit that yes, i AM fatter. i feel sorry for the girls out there that get pressurised by friends, boyfriends and self pride and start to shirk when weight is concerned. People should love us for us, not the number on the weighing scale.

But if you're snacking unhealthily, it's time to stop. Yes, you, Samantha Leong.

Next, GUYS.

Okay, so some girls just can't get over that one guy who: has horrible characteristics, but you're just smitten with him. For days and weeks and months and years even. And that guy may have been shitty to you (in your opinion, but the guy has his own side of the story). And because of some misunderstanding, you and/or him are left hanging so you can't seem to stop thinking about him.

Okay, yes i've been there before. And i'm not going to laugh at the girls who are going through this unneccessary pain. But when time goes by and you look back, you realise that in fact it was no biggie! Like such girls, yes, there was a stupid misunderstanding which none bothered to clear up in my situation and it went on for 2 years. But stuff like that needs some form of CLOSURE.

By closure i mean AKA ending for the story you started. Like it or not, it's best to clean things up, get refreshed and allow both yourself and that guy move on. In my case i had to work with my ex in my CCA, and although we still do squabble, we respect each other and move on with life.

It's tough situations like these that helps us gain better insights on stuff like romance and all. And in my opinion, i think it's still too early for romance at this age. Not because i'm all grannypants and what shit, but because we should enjoy singlehood and freedom. I think us younger people either tend to be more insecure so we'd tie each other down, or be so careless that we let the person slip away. It all ends up in unhappiness, which is uncalled for at our age.

WHO NEEDS GUYS WHEN YOU HAVE BEST FRIENDS!:D is what my stupid heart is screaming now.

Whether it's weight or guys, GIRLS, NOTHING'S OVER! the next time anyone comments on your weight, smile your most dazzling smile and proudly say yes, i AM that. Because you should be true to yourself. the next time you see the person whom your heart still aches over, man up and create a closure before preparing for the next story.